Addiction Addictive Behaviors How to Stop Watching Porn By Toketemu Ohwovoriole Toketemu Ohwovoriole LinkedIn Toketemu has been multimedia storyteller for the last four years. Her expertise focuses primarily on mental wellness and women’s health topics. Learn about our editorial process Updated on November 17, 2022 Medically reviewed Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. Learn more. by John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE Medically reviewed by John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE is board-certified in addiction medicine and preventative medicine. He is the medical director at Alcohol Recovery Medicine. For over 20 years Dr. Umhau was a senior clinical investigator at the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism of the National Institutes of Health (NIH). Learn about our Medical Review Board Print Verywell / Alison Czinkota Table of Contents View All Table of Contents Signs of a Porn Addiction Tips for Overcoming Your Addiction Treatment for Porn Addiction Watching porn can be a sign of a healthy sexual appetite. However, if you find yourself watching it excessively, this might signify that you have a porn addiction. While having a porn addiction might seem harmless, it can be detrimental to your general well-being. People with porn addictions often use it as an unhealthy coping mechanism with stressors in their lives or as a replacement for having a healthy sexual life. To stop watching porn, you can understand why you are giving it up, get rid of the porn, and enlist help from an accountability buddy among other strategies below. Is Watching Porn Bad for You? Signs of a Porn Addiction A person who has an uncontrollable desire to watch porn at any time of the day and in any space, especially where it might not be considered appropriate, might have a porn addiction. Recognizing a porn addiction is tricky as there’s no official diagnosis for it. There’s also a thin line between people who have a healthy desire to consume porn and people who are addicted. Here are some other signs that point to porn addiction: You find that it’s impossible to stop watching porn even when you desire to stop You experience immense guilt or shame about the time and resources you put into watching porn You start to neglect work and personal relationships to spend that time watching porn You find it difficult to enjoy sex or any sexual acts without involving porn You notice that watching porn has begun to interfere with your daily functioning There has been some controversy around recognizing porn addiction as a real addiction. However, there is enough research to point to people having real struggles with porn. Like with any addiction, if porn addiction is ignored, it can have negative consequences. Press Play for Advice On Dealing With Porn Addiction Hosted by Editor-in-Chief and therapist Amy Morin, LCSW, this episode of The Verywell Mind Podcast, featuring actor/tv host Terry Crews, shares how to navigate shame, trauma, and recover from porn addiction. Click below to listen now. Follow Now: Apple Podcasts / Spotify / Google Podcasts Tips for Overcoming Your Addiction If you think you might be dealing with a porn addiction, below are some tips to help you to stop. Understand Why You Are Giving It Up You don’t have to have a porn addiction in order to decide that you are giving up porn. You could be doing so for religious or ethical reasons. You could also be doing so because it’s causing a rift between you and a romantic partner or simply because you just no longer want to watch porn. Coming to terms with the reason you are giving it up, helps you stay accountable whenever you are tempted to watch it. Accept That You Have a Problem If There Is One If any of the signs of a porn addiction listed in the section above resonate with you, then you might be dealing with a porn addiction. Many people keep a porn addiction problem to themselves as they feel they’ll be judged by society, but remember that you are not alone. Get Rid of the Porn This includes any physical or digital evidence of pornography content in your life. You need to make a clean sweep of all of that kind of content. There’s no excuse to hold on to any of it, even those vintage porn magazines that might have some sentimental value. Once the content is readily available around you, it’s easy to slip back to old habits. On your phone, television, and other devices, you should install filters that block pornographic content and sites. Get an Accountability Buddy This could be a close friend who you trust or even an app on your phone that reminds you of how long you’ve come in your recovery journey and why you are doing it. Join a Support Group A support group helps you remember that you are not alone. It also eases your recovery journey if watching porn isn’t just a habit that you want to quit but an addiction. These groups provide a safe, anonymous, and judgment-free zone for you to share your struggles with pornography and hear from other people who are going through similar experiences. Don’t Beat Yourself Up If You Fall Off the Wagon Trying to break a habit or recover from an addiction is a journey. Unfortunately, on that journey, you might find yourself slipping back into old habits. Whenever that happens, don’t waste any time beating yourself up. Do your research, try more coping mechanisms and treatment options and get back on the wagon. Replace Watching Porn With a Healthy Habit A trusted way to rid yourself of a bad habit is to replace it with a good habit whenever you begin to feel the urge to indulge in that bad habit. For instance, going for a run when you feel the familiar urge to watch porn is a great way to healthily distract yourself. How to Break a Bad Habit Treatment for Porn Addiction If you think you have a porn addiction, then simply trying to stop watching porn will prove to be incredibly difficult. So the first thing to do when considering treatment for porn addiction is to speak to a therapist. They will be able to recognize if you do indeed have an addiction and plan the next steps to take with you. This typically includes a combination of psychotherapy and, in some cases, medication. Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is a commonly used approach with people who are living with addictions. CBT aims to help you recognize and change negative thoughts and behaviors. Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) is another popular form of psychotherapy used in addiction treatment. ACT focuses on helping you identify and accept the urges associated with watching porn and use value-based interventions to manage urges and symptoms. What Are the Effects of Porn Addiction? A Word From Verywell If you or someone you love is displaying signs of porn addiction, it’s important to get help, as it’s challenging to overcome addiction alone. However, it’s also important to remember that watching and enjoying porn in healthy doses is perfectly fine. 1 Source Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. Read our editorial process to learn more about how we fact-check and keep our content accurate, reliable, and trustworthy. de Alarcón R, de la Iglesia JI, Casado NM, Montejo AL. Online porn addiction: what we know and what we don’t—a systematic review. 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