What Is a Guilt Complex?

Characteristics of a guilt complex

Verywell / Alison Czinkota

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A guilt complex refers to a persistent belief that you have done something wrong or that you will do something wrong. In addition to constant feelings of guilt and worry, a guilt complex can also lead to feelings of shame and anxiety. 

While a guilt complex may be the result of real harm that a person may have caused, it can also center on imagined or perceived guilt. People may think that they have done something wrong, even though they haven't. In other cases, they may overestimate their own role in a situation, believing that their own minor mistakes had a much more serious impact than they really did.

It is important to note that while a guilt complex can be distressing, it is not recognized as a separate condition in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5).

Excessive and inappropriate guilt is associated with a number of mental health conditions including depression, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD).


Guilt is described as a self-conscious emotion that involves negative evaluations of the self, feelings of distress, and feelings of failure. Some of the signs that you might be coping with a guilt complex include:

  • Anxiety
  • Crying
  • Insomnia
  • Muscle tension
  • Preoccupation with past mistakes
  • Regret
  • Upset stomach
  • Worry

A guilt complex can also lead to feelings of anxiety, depression, and stress including difficulty sleeping, loss of interest, fatigue, difficulty concentrating, and social withdrawal.

A guilt complex can have a serious impact on a person's overall well-being. Over time, people may begin to develop a sense of inadequacy that makes it difficult for them to pursue goals. They may feel that they don't deserve to move on and may engage in behaviors designed to punish themselves for their mistakes. 

Feelings of shame are another common consequence of a guilt complex. As a result of this shame, people may isolate themselves from others. This can have a devastating impact on relationships and make it difficult to find strong social support.


There are a number of different factors that can contribute to a guilt complex. Some of these include:

  • Anxiety: If you have a great deal of anxiety, you may be more likely to negatively assess your own actions in ways that lead to feelings of guilt. 
  • Childhood experiences: Children who are raised in households where they are made to feel that they have done something wrong, have something to hide, or are responsible for problems may be left with lingering feelings of guilt.
  • Culture: If you find yourself doing things that are in opposition to the cultural norms you were raised with, you may experience guilt even if you no longer believe in or support those norms. 
  • Religion: Some religious traditions rely on feelings of guilt as a way to indicate that a person has done something wrong. 
  • Social pressure: If you feel that other people are judging you for the things that you have done, you may be left with feelings of guilt and remorse.


There are many different forms of guilt that can contribute to a guilt complex. Some of these include:

  • Natural guilt: If you genuinely committed a wrong and feel bad for what you have done, guilt is a normal response. This type of guilt can be adaptive and can motivate you to take action or make changes in ways that are beneficial in the future. For example, you might relieve your guilt by apologizing for an action or changing a problematic behavior. If these actions are not addressed in a way that allows you to move on, however, they may lead to lingering feelings of persistent guilt that interfere with your life.
  • Maladaptive guilt: Sometimes people feel guilty about things that weren't within their control. For example, they may feel guilty that they didn't take action to prevent something that they had no way of predicting. Even though there was truly nothing they could do, they still feel strong feelings of regret, shame, and guilt.
  • Guilty thoughts: Everyone has negative or inappropriate thoughts from time to time, yet sometimes people develop feelings of guilt for having such thoughts. Even though they may not act on them, they may fear that it means that they will or fear that others will find out about their "bad" thoughts.
  • Existential guilt: This type of guilt can be complicated and often centered on things like guilt over injustices or guilt about not living according to one's principles. One type of existential guilt is known as survivor’s guilt. Sometimes people will experience a guilt complex because they are doing well when others they care about are not. This can emerge when someone survives some time of accident or disaster in which others are harmed, but it can also occur when other people experience misfortune when you don't.


It is important to get help in order to protect your mental well-being and quality of life. If you are experiencing symptoms of guilt that are interfering with your daily life and causing distress, talk to your doctor or a mental health professional. There are different treatment options that may help you cope with a guilt complex.


Your doctor may prescribe antidepressants or anti-anxiety medications to help you cope with symptoms of depression or anxiety, but they may also recommend psychotherapy.


Cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) is one approach that involves learning to recognize the negative thoughts that lead to feelings of guilt. By learning to replace these thoughts with more positive ones, people may be able to let go of the burdens that are contributing to their guilt complex.

CBT can also help you to develop a better understanding of yourself, including your emotions and attitudes. When something happens that may lead to guilt, you'll be better equipped to deal with it in the moment and avoid some of the cognitive distortions that contribute to the development of guilt. 

Research suggests that guilt associated with trauma can contribute to an increased risk of suicidal thoughts, so seeking help for these feelings of guilt is essential.

If you are having suicidal thoughts, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 for support and assistance from a trained counselor. If you or a loved one are in immediate danger, call 911.

For more mental health resources, see our National Helpline Database.


If you are trying to cope with persistent feelings of guilt, there are things that you can do that may make it easier to manage these difficult emotions. Some strategies that may help you cope with a guilt complex include:

Reframe the Situation

If you find yourself only focusing on negative thoughts, consider ways to think differently about the situation. Were there other factors that played a role? What can you do differently in the future? Finding a way to shift your focus from the negative to more realistic, positive thoughts may help you move past your feelings of self-recrimination.

Forgive Yourself

Learning how to practice self-forgiveness can be an important tool for letting go of guilt. Forgiving yourself doesn't mean letting yourself off the hook if you've made a mistake or caused someone harm; instead, it's about taking responsibility, allowing yourself some time to express remorse, making amends, and then finding a way to move on.

Talk to Someone

Sharing your feelings with a close friend can sometimes be helpful. Social support can play a pivotal role in coping with difficult emotions, so maintaining your relationships with friends and loved ones is important.

If you struggle to talk to your loved ones about your feelings of guilt or if they are not providing the type of support you need, discussing your feelings with a mental health professional can also be helpful. Traditional face-to-face therapy sessions are one option, but online therapy may also be a convenient option that you might want to consider. 

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Guilt isn’t necessarily an unhealthy emotion. It can help you learn to identify things you want to change and find ways to mend relationships you may have harmed. Feelings of guilt can serve as a way to identify and correct social transgressions that threaten relationships with other people.

It is when these feelings become persistent and overwhelming that it is important to seek professional help. Talk to your doctor or a mental health professional if you are experiencing symptoms of excessive guilt or other symptoms of depression.

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