Addiction Drug Use Marijuana How to Tell If Your Child Has Been Using Marijuana By Buddy T Buddy T Facebook Twitter Buddy T is an anonymous writer and founding member of the Online Al-Anon Outreach Committee with decades of experience writing about alcoholism. Learn about our editorial process Updated on November 05, 2020 Medically reviewed Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. Learn more. by John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE Medically reviewed by John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE John C. Umhau, MD, MPH, CPE is board-certified in addiction medicine and preventative medicine. He is the medical director at Alcohol Recovery Medicine. For over 20 years Dr. Umhau was a senior clinical investigator at the National Institute on Alcohol Abuse and Alcoholism of the National Institutes of Health (NIH). Learn about our Medical Review Board Print krisanapong detraphiphat / Getty Images Naturally, most parents would prefer not to find out that their children are smoking marijuana while they are young. Even if you have a tolerant attitude toward marijuana or perhaps smoke it—or used to smoke it—yourself, you probably would not want your young children to use it due to the damage it can do to their young, developing brains. Or, you may be like many parents and think that your child will not get involved with drugs or alcohol, because you have discussed the dangers with them, and besides, smoking weed is something that older children do, not your child. Earlier Marijuana Use One problem is children today are beginning to smoke marijuana very early in life. National surveys may indicate that the average age that children first smoke weed is 16, but that means many of them started much earlier for the average to be age 16. In fact, one survey of children in treatment for substance abuse found that 14% of them first smoked marijuana before age 13. Increased Marijuana Availability Another problem is availability. Research has found that availability plays a large role in youngsters becoming involved with substance abuse whether it is alcohol, inhalants, prescription drugs, or marijuana. Make no mistake about it, marijuana is becoming more and more available to young children, even in elementary and middle school. In response to surveys, a growing percentage of teens report that they know someone who sells drugs or know where they can buy drugs. In fact, some teens report they can get marijuana easier than they can alcohol. Legalization Has Changed Attitudes The growth of the marijuana legalization movement in the United States—for both medical and recreational use—has had an effect on how children perceive the use of marijuana. Fewer teens report seeing it as harmful or dangerous. And finally, if you are a parent who does smoke marijuana, or even if you merely express approval of the use of weed around your children, they are much more likely to smoke it themselves compared with children whose parents disapprove of the drug. Given all of these factors, you might want to rethink whether or not your child might be involved in marijuana use, especially if they have shown any of the signs outlined below. Risks Associated With Early Marijuana Use It is also important to be aware of the potential long-term damage that marijuana use can cause in young people. Research suggests that marijuana use can harm developing brains and lead to problems with thinking, problem-solving, attention, and coordination. Marijuana use is also linked to an increased risk for mental illness. Evidence also suggests that while the brain experiences recovery once marijuana use stops, the damage is lasting. How to Spot Marijuana Use If someone is actually high on marijuana, there may be some visible signs that they are under the influence: They may seem unsteady on their feet or appear dizzy.They could have bloodshot eyes.They might laugh inappropriately or seem silly for no reason.They may have difficulty remembering something that just happened.As the effects wear off, they may become sleepy. Evidence of Smoking Behavior Even if they are not visibly high, there are some signs you can look for that linger after they have been smoking: The odor will linger and cling to their clothesDrug paraphernalia such as rolling papers or pipesSudden uncharacteristic use of eye dropsThe use of incense or room deodorizersPro-drug slogans on t-shirts or postersEvidence of smoking, such as lighters, ashes Sudden Behavioral Changes Although these behavioral changes could be related to other typical teenage issues, they also could indicate marijuana use: Tiredness Hostility or mood swings Social withdrawal Depression Declining attention to hygiene, grooming Deteriorating relationships Changes in Interests These signs could also indicate other teenage-related problems, they also could be prompted by the use of marijuana: A change in friends or peer groupDeclining grades in schoolIncreased absenteeism or truancyChanges in eating habitsA change in sleep patternsLoss of interest in sports or other activitiesBehavioral problems at schoolBrushes with the law What to Do If You Suspect Marijuana Use If you suspect that your child has been using marijuana, you may want to just sit down and talk to them about it. If your child is using marijuana, chances are he or she will deny it and blame any evidence you found on someone else. But, carefully watch their reaction to your conversation with them. If they over-react, that too could be an indication of their involvement with marijuana or other drugs. How about drug testing your child? There are home drug tests available that parents can use to test their children, but be aware that there are some drawbacks when parents decide to test their kids. If you or a loved one are struggling with substance use or addiction, contact the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357 for information on support and treatment facilities in your area. For more mental health resources, see our National Helpline Database. 10 Pictures of Marijuana to Help Identify Different Forms 4 Sources Verywell Mind uses only high-quality sources, including peer-reviewed studies, to support the facts within our articles. 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J Neurosci. 2019;39(42):8250-8258. doi:10.1523/JNEUROSCI.1165-19.2019 Additional Reading National Institute on Drug Abuse. Marijuana: Facts Parents Need to Know. Publications. Partnership for Drug-Free Kids. If You Catch Your Teen Smoking Pot. Resources. By Buddy T Buddy T is an anonymous writer and founding member of the Online Al-Anon Outreach Committee with decades of experience writing about alcoholism. See Our Editorial Process Meet Our Review Board Share Feedback Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! What is your feedback? Other Helpful Report an Error Submit Get Treatment for Addiction Advertiser Disclosure × The offers that appear in this table are from partnerships from which Verywell Mind receives compensation.