Causes and Treatment of Low Libido in Men

Low libido is a term used to describe a decrease in sex drive that can interfere with sexual activity. While low libido can cause tension in a relationship, fostering doubt and guilt in both partners, it can often be treated if the underlying cause is identified. 

Low libido should not be confused with erectile dysfunction (ED), although the two conditions can co-exist. Communication and honesty are needed for a couple to cope while identifying the possible causes. Treatment can vary and may involve psychotherapy, hormone replacement, lifestyle changes, or the adjustment of drug therapies.

Low libido can sometimes be caused by a single factor but is more often related to multiple factors that each contribute in their own way. Among some of the more common causes are low testosterone, medications, depression, chronic illness, and stress.

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Low Testosterone and ED

Low testosterone (hypogonadism) commonly develops as a man ages, but can also affect younger men for any number of reasons. Testosterone is the male hormone essential to development, strength, and sex drive.

If the total testosterone drops below 300 to 350 nanograms per deciliter (ng/dL), the male libido can plummet, sometimes dramatically.

While testosterone replacement therapy may be useful in restoring the male sexual drive, it may increase the risk of blood clots and strokes in men with an underlying cardiovascular disorder. Sleep apnea, acne, and breast enlargement (gynecomastia) are other common side effects.

How Medications Impact Libido

Medication side effects are common causes of low libido in men. These may include entire classes of drugs that can affect a man's sex drive to varying degrees. Common culprits include statins, beta-blockers, antidepressants, antipsychotics, benzodiazepines, and anticonvulsants.

Even over-the-counter drugs like Tagamet (cimetidine) can cause problems if taken for long periods of time. Stopping or changing the suspected drug may reverse the condition, although this is not always possible with certain chronic medications. A dose adjustment may also help. As always, do not change medication or dosage without first talking to your physician.

Depression and Low Libido

Depression and low libido may go hand-in-hand. Depression is often the cause of a reduced sex drive but may also be the consequence, making a tough situation worse. While psychotherapy may be effective in treating depression, antidepressant medications can often exacerbate rather than improve the loss of libido.

Switching drugs or reducing the dosage can sometimes help, but the side effects aren't immediate, and skipping or delaying a dose won't help. If you are depressed, it is important to discuss your libido with your doctor and to talk about how medications may impact your sex drive.

The Effects of Chronic Illness

Chronic illness can take a toll on your sex drive both physically and emotionally. This is especially true with conditions for which there is chronic pain or fatigue, including rheumatoid arthritis, fibromyalgia, cancer, and chronic fatigue syndrome.

When it comes to chronic illness and the loss of sexual function, there is rarely a straight line between cause and treatment. On the one hand, chronic illness is associated with an increased risk of depression, while on the other, it can directly interfere with hormonal, neurological, or vascular functions central to the male sex drive.

Moreover, the medications used to treat the chronic condition (such as chemotherapy or cardiovascular drugs) may directly impair the male libido. As such, your doctor may need to explore the cause both from the perspective of the chronic illness and irrespective of the chronic illness. In some cases, multiple doctors may be needed.

Stress and Sleep Disorders

While stress can impair sexual interest by literally driving you to distraction, its effect on the sex drive is more insidious. Stress triggers the production of cortisol, a hormone that functions rather like a body's built-in alarm system. Cortisol not only causes the constriction of blood vessels, contributing to ED, it can also cause a precipitous drop in testosterone.

Stress is also linked to insomnia and other sleep abnormalities, which can increase the risk of fatigue and leave you less interested in sex.

There is evidence that elevated cortisol levels may increase the risk of obstructive sleep apnea (OSA), a condition associated with the reduction of daytime testosterone by anywhere from 10% to 15%.

Treatment may involve stress management techniques and the use of positive airway pressure and improved sleep hygiene to treat conditions like OSA and insomnia. If the stress is associated with an anxiety disorder, medications may be needed, some of which (like benzodiazepines) may enhance rather than alleviate low libido.

Lifestyle Factors Associated With ED

There are lifestyle factors that may contribute significantly to low libido in men. These tend to be more readily remedied by simply changing or stopping the behavior. Lifestyle factors that may increase the likelihood of ED include:

  • Alcohol: Excessive drinking, or drinking over the course of years, redirects enzymes needed to synthesize testosterone from the testes to the liver, resulting in reduced testosterone levels.
  • Obesity: Extra weight directly impairs metabolism and hormone function, resulting in significantly reduced total and free testosterone. By contrast, exercise and weight loss not only enhance mood and energy levels but also improve sexual function and self-image.
  • Smoking: This directly increases the risk of ED and indirectly impairs sexual arousal, according to a 2012 study from the University of Texas Austin.

While the detrimental effects of these behaviors are clear, it is never wise to "pin" low libido on a single lifestyle factor without first conferring with a doctor to explore all other possible causes.

A Word From Verywell

If the loss of libido is affecting your relationship, you need to take extra care to avoid directing blame at yourself or your partner. Instead, you would be well served to approach solutions as a couple, neither assigning it as his issue or my issue but rather one to which you both actively participate.

This requires open and honest communication about not only the physical symptoms of low libido but the emotional ones. Doing so allows you to identify which doctor or doctors are needed to diagnose, and hopefully, treat the condition.

This may include an endocrinologist, urologist, chronic disease specialist, psychiatrist, sex therapist, or other health professional. There may not be a quick fix, but, with time and patience, a solution may be found. 

In the meantime, try to remind yourself that the loss of sexual desire is not the same thing as the loss of a desire for intimacy. Even when struggling with sexual dysfunction, make every effort to connect emotionally and physically. By doing so, you can forge a closer bond and may even end up strengthening your relationship.

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