Why People With PTSD Tend to Experience Irritability and Anger

Anger and irritability are hyperarousal symptoms of PTSD. Think of hyperarousal as a constant state of "fight or flight." This heightened anxiety can have a variety of symptoms including difficulty sleeping, irritability, and hypervigilance. There are, however, ways to cope with each of these.

People often primarily view anger as a negative or harmful emotion. But that's not always the case. It's true that anger can often lead to unhealthy behaviors like substance abuse or impulsive actions. Yet, feeling angry isn't "bad" in itself. It's a valid emotional experience and it can provide you with important information.

You may have heard anger classified into two types: constructive anger and destructive anger. Constructive anger can help with healing, forward movement, and recovery, while destructive anger can cause harm. It's a good idea to understand this difference and find ways of managing both in your life.

The conflicts in Iraq and Afghanistan have taught us more about their impact on men and women in military service. It's become clear that veterans are at risk for a number of mental health problems, including PTSD and extreme anger.

Yet, it's key to remember that you are not alone in this. There are a variety of treatment options available and other vets that are feeling the same way. The more we learn about PTSD in veterans, the more we are learning about effective therapies, and more service members are finding help.

Unfortunately, research has found a connection between PTSD and relationship violence. On a yearly basis, between 8 and 21 percent of people in serious intimate relationships take aggressive actions against their partners.

If your relationship is affected by PTSD, it's wise to learn about the association between it and violence. While the two are connected, not everyone with PTSD is or will abuse their partner. However, if you or someone you know is a victim of relationship violence, it's important to know there are resources available.

Although intense anger can cause people with PTSD to be aggressive toward others, more often than not they'll try to push down or hide their anger. This can be effective in the short-term, but in the long-term, it can build up the anger until it's out of control.

When that happens, some people turn their anger on themselves in the form of self-destructive behaviors. This may include substance abuse or deliberate self-harm. While this is common with PTSD, there are ways to cope with it that you'll want to know.

As you probably know, anger can be a very difficult emotion to manage, especially if it feels intense and out of control. Rather than turning to unhealthy behaviors to try and mitigate or forget it, it's a good idea to learn useful anger management techniques.

Included in these are simple things like exercise, practicing mindfulness, and finding someone you trust to talk things out with. At times, it can seem like a long road. Eventually, something may click and you'll find a few techniques that work for your life.

Within those useful anger management skills is the suggestion to take a "time-out" when you feel yourself starting to get angry. It's an easy skill to learn.

When you develop a time-out plan, you give yourself specific steps to take when you feel anger. Many people with PTSD have found this a great source for relief and an excellent strategy for their relationships.

Have you heard about using self-soothing skills to help manage your anger? They're easy to learn and use because they're designed to make you feel better, and you do them on your own.

Self-soothing skills make use of your five senses—touch, taste, smell, sight, and sound. The key is to focus on the activity. By remaining mindful about something other than your anger, your mind and body naturally become calmer.

Talking with others as a way of "getting your emotions out" can be effective in preventing anger from building up inside. For one thing, it can help you see another person's point of view. It also gives you the opportunity to express your frustrations in a constructive way.

Of course, it's important to make sure that you reach out to people you trust who will understand and support your feelings. Support groups for PTSD are widely available and many people have found them to be a great help with their own challenges.

Believe it or not, coping skills for managing anxiety can also help manage your anger effectively. Why? Because intense anger and anxiety are similar emotions in that both tend to ignite a "fight or flight" response.

When you learn skills for coping with intense anxiety, you're also learning ways to keep your anger at less intense levels. Remember that your PTSD triggers may provoke either feeling, so it's worth your time to learn coping skills for both.