PTSD Causes What Are the Mental Health Effects of Being Adopted? By Theodora Blanchfield, AMFT Theodora Blanchfield, AMFT Twitter Theodora Blanchfield is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and mental health writer using her experiences to help others. She holds a master's degree in clinical psychology from Antioch University and is a board member of Still I Run, a non-profit for runners raising mental health awareness. Theodora has been published on sites including Women's Health, Bustle, Healthline, and more and quoted in sites including the New York Times, Shape, and Marie Claire. Learn about our editorial process Published on February 14, 2022 Medically reviewed Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. Learn more. by Ann-Louise T. Lockhart, PsyD, ABPP Medically reviewed by Ann-Louise T. Lockhart, PsyD, ABPP Facebook LinkedIn Ann-Louise T. Lockhart, PsyD, ABPP, is a board-certified pediatric psychologist, parent coach, author, speaker, and owner of A New Day Pediatric Psychology, PLLC. Learn about our Medical Review Board Print 10'000 Hours / Getty Images Table of Contents View All Table of Contents Adoptees at Higher Risk for Mental Health Issues Mental Health Effects of Being Adopted How to Find Help While many people look at adoption as something beautiful—and it can be—the truth is that adoptees may deal with significant mental health effects after being adopted. Adoption involves placing a child with someone who is not their biological parent—whether this is after being separated at birth or being adopted at any subsequent point. There are about seven million adoptees living in the United States and approximately 140,000 are adopted each year. Attachment starts in the womb,so even for children relinquished at birth, this represents a significant trauma and attachment wound. Adoption is often forgotten when speaking about trauma, leading to a form of disenfranchised grief, which is grief that is not typically acknowledged or validated by society. Both the trauma and the unrecognized grief may contribute to significant mental health issues. Here are some ways this affects adoptees. Signs and Causes of Attachment Issues Adoptees at Higher Risk for Mental Health Issues Adoptees are statistically known to be more at risk for mental health problems, both due to the initial trauma and genetics. Mental health issues may also be prevalent in biological parents, who have suffered their own traumas, which are then genetically passed on to the child. A meta-analysis (review of studies) about adoptees’ mental health found higher levels of depression and anxiety than in non-adoptees, with bipolar disorder and major depressive disorder the two disorders most associated with adoption. Additionally, adoptees are more than four times more likely to attempt suicide. Why Adoptees are at Risk Adoption is a trauma that is often overlooked. “It’s not natural for a baby anything to be separated immediately from its mother,” says Lesli Johnson, LMFT, a therapist who works with adoptees. Lesli Johnson, LMFT It’s not OK to bring puppies home until they’re eight weeks old, but with infants, we have this expectation that they’re just supposed to fit in and belong. — Lesli Johnson, LMFT Attachment is the state of emotional connectedness with another human being, primarily parents. Research shows that children who have been adopted face higher levels of attachment insecurity than non-adoptees—and adoptees who enter their parents’ lives later than at one year old have deeper attachment issues than those adopted at birth or soon after. Some of this may be due to intergenerational transmission of attachment issues—that is, the changes in one’s body/brain due to poor attachment being genetically passed on. Additionally, Johnson says that some of the issues come from the messaging that adoptees receive—both societally and at home. “If they are told ‘your parent loved you so much, she wanted you to have a better life,’ kids might conflate love with loss. It’s not a great way for adoptive parents to explain it to kids.” Mental Health Effects of Being Adopted Adoptees are more likely to have a psychiatric diagnosis than non-adoptees, both due to the effects of trauma as well as increased chance of heritability. Some common diagnoses among adoptees: Depression Anxiety Bipolar Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder Post-traumatic stress disorder Oppositional defiant disorder Common Issues Among Adoptees While there are certain mental health conditions and diagnoses that adoptees are vulnerable to, there are also issues that arise that do not represent a clinical diagnosis, but nonetheless, affect adoptees' lives. Disenfranchised Grief While things like death and divorce are typically recognized as grief, adoption is not often recognized. This is called disenfranchised grief—a type of grief that people feel uncomfortable acknowledging publicly. Johnson says that this type of grief is common among adoptees because of the societal messaging suggesting “you should be grateful” or “you were adopted into a good family.” Because of this, adoptees often will downplay their loss—and the loss of your birth mother or parents is a major loss, even if it was “for a good reason.” Hypervigilance Often associated with PTSD, hypervigilance is a feeling of being constantly on guard for danger. In adoptees, Johnson says this is due to “the initial separation between mom and baby creating high levels of [the stress hormone] cortisol and a tendency for reactivity. That sense of danger for the baby is embedded in the nervous system.” Trust Often adults and young adults will experience difficulty with relationships, according to Johnson. “They wonder ‘who can I trust?’” Their major experiences with “love” have included loss, so they wonder who will stick around. Forming a Sense of Self While most people will struggle at some point to figure out who they are in the world, adoptees have it even harder. If you don’t even know anything about the people responsible for your genetics, it can be hard to know who you are. Adoptees—particularly in transracial adoptions—may feel stuck between two worlds. They feel like they don’t quite belong in the family raising them, nor do they belong in the their family of origin. Issues in Children Johnson says that younger kids, between ages three to five, often have a very literal understanding of adoption. “Adoption [to a kid] simply means ‘I was given to this family.' "But as kids get older, they start putting things together. They might see a classmate’s pregnant mother and have questions their adoptive family may not be able to answer about their mother’s pregnancy.” Grief looks different in children, she says. Rather than tearfulness or sadness, it often looks like acting out or not behaving. Suicide in Adoptees Adoptees are at a four times higher rate of risk for suicide, according to one study. It is believed that some of the reasons for this may be early trauma, attachment issues, and a history of institutional care, such as in an orphanage. Other reasons may include the possible inheritance of susceptibility to mental illness, substance use, or suicidal behavior. If you are having suicidal thoughts, contact the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 988 for support and assistance from a trained counselor. If you or a loved one are in immediate danger, call 911. For more mental health resources, see our National Helpline Database. How to Find Help If you are an adoptee and these or any other issues have been impacting your life, there is support for you out there, from adoption-focused therapists to support groups. You don't have to face this alone. Therapy The good news is that adoptees go to therapy at a higher rate than non-adoptees; they are represented twice as much as non-adoptees in therapy. When looking for a therapist who specializes in adoption, Johnson suggests asking these three questions: Do you think separating a child from biological parents is trauma?What has your training been in working with adoption and foster care?What is your training in attachment? You can also search therapy directories for therapists who have experience working with adoptees, or search lists specifically of therapists who have been touched by adoption themselves. Support Groups Adoption can feel like a very unique and isolating experience that few understand. A support group of other adoptees may help you feel less alone. 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Pediatrics. 2013;132(4):639-646. https://doi.org/10.1542/peds.2012-3251 By Theodora Blanchfield, AMFT Theodora Blanchfield is an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist and mental health writer using her experiences to help others. She holds a master's degree in clinical psychology from Antioch University and is a board member of Still I Run, a non-profit for runners raising mental health awareness. Theodora has been published on sites including Women's Health, Bustle, Healthline, and more and quoted in sites including the New York Times, Shape, and Marie Claire. See Our Editorial Process Meet Our Review Board Share Feedback Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! What is your feedback? Other Helpful Report an Error Submit Speak to a Therapist for PTSD Advertiser Disclosure × The offers that appear in this table are from partnerships from which Verywell Mind receives compensation.