BPD Treatment Phone Coaching Can Treat Borderline Personality Disorder Phone coaching is an essential part of your therapy By Kristalyn Salters-Pedneault, PhD Kristalyn Salters-Pedneault, PhD Kristalyn Salters-Pedneault, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and associate professor of psychology at Eastern Connecticut State University. Learn about our editorial process Updated on January 22, 2021 Medically reviewed Verywell Mind articles are reviewed by board-certified physicians and mental healthcare professionals. Medical Reviewers confirm the content is thorough and accurate, reflecting the latest evidence-based research. Content is reviewed before publication and upon substantial updates. Learn more. by Daniel B. Block, MD Medically reviewed by Daniel B. Block, MD LinkedIn Twitter Daniel B. Block, MD, is an award-winning, board-certified psychiatrist who operates a private practice in Pennsylvania. Learn about our Medical Review Board Print Tim Robberts/The Image Bank/Getty Images One important aspect of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) for borderline personality disorder is phone coaching. What is phone coaching, and how can it help you cope with symptoms? Phone coaching is one of the essential elements of dialectical behavior therapy (DBT), a very effective form of psychotherapy that is used for borderline personality disorder (BPD). While there is no cure for BPD, DBT has been proven to decrease the occurrence and severity of symptoms. When you begin a DBT program, you will have regular sessions with your therapist, so it's imperative that you feel comfortable with that person. If you have BPD, you likely have experienced a wide range of symptoms that prevent you from living a normal life. From addictions to violent mood swings and suicidal thoughts, BPD is a serious illness that requires a holistic approach to treatment. This makes DBT and all of its components so important for your recovery during therapy. In DBT, you will be provided with group skills training, a therapy group in which you will learn basic skills for managing emotions, maintaining relationships and tolerating distress, and individual psychotherapy with a therapist. During these sessions, you'll work on controlling overly intense emotions, reduce self-destructive or harmful behaviors and manage your pain. It is a problem-solving approach to BPD that can reap significant results for patients. The Role of Phone Coaching One pivotal part of DBT is the role of phone coaching. DBT therapists must be available for phone coaching throughout the course of your therapy. You will be encouraged to call your therapist at any time, day or night, when you're in need of help. It's especially helpful if you often feel ashamed, scared or think your fears go unheard. During the call, your therapist will talk you through the situation, helping to stop you from harming yourself or taking part in destructive or dangerous actions. He will work with you through phone coaching to use the skills you've learned to handle the situation or crisis appropriately, without hurting yourself. Beyond preventing self-harming behaviors, phone coaching will help you navigate difficult experiences and provide encouragement during these times. Through coaching, your skills will be reinforced. Just like coaching helps an athlete, phone coaching allows you to master the techniques you've learned and apply them to real life. This empowers you to handle these situations confidently and eventually be able to get through them alone. Phone coaching should be used thoughtfully, but you should never hesitate to call your therapist if you're in distress. While your therapist won't want you to use phone coaching inappropriately, such as if you're refusing to use the skills you've learned, you are encouraged to call whenever you feel in need of help. Many BPD patients don't call because they feel as if they aren't worth the effort and don't want to disturb anyone, but it's essential that you trust and confide in your therapist to help your progress. If you or a loved one are struggling with BPD, contact the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357 for information on support and treatment facilities in your area. For more mental health resources, see our National Helpline Database. By Kristalyn Salters-Pedneault, PhD Kristalyn Salters-Pedneault, PhD, is a clinical psychologist and associate professor of psychology at Eastern Connecticut State University. See Our Editorial Process Meet Our Review Board Share Feedback Was this page helpful? Thanks for your feedback! What is your feedback? Other Helpful Report an Error Submit Speak to a Therapist for BPD Advertiser Disclosure × The offers that appear in this table are from partnerships from which Verywell Mind receives compensation.